自閉的優勢

早上7點整,季齡站在我臥房門口。 “ Breakfast!” 他是一字大師, 惜字如金,卻總是一語中的, 直切重點。例如,我開車時, 季齡是最佳導航,我只要告訴他去哪兒,他一路簡短的說:left lane; 或 right turn;  當我偶一分神, 季齡總是很平靜的提醒我,” straight” or “exit,”  有時快到紅綠燈還沒踩剎車,他會緊張的說:” stop! stop!“ 這是唯一說兩次的話。只有提醒,絕不指責!季齡是絕對的好夥伴。 Continue reading 自閉的優勢

Perfect Autism

At 7 am sharp, Chiling shows up at my bedroom doorway. “Breakfast!” He is the master of one word expressions; cherishing his words like gold, he always gets to the point with just a single word.  For instance, as my driving navigator, I simply have to tell Chiling the destination, and he will direct me with perfect instructions: “left lane,” or “right turn.” Sometimes, when I get distracted, he never fails to calmly remind me of the next step: “straight” or “exit.”  When he sees a red light coming up and I have not started to hit the brakes, Chiling will raise his voice nervously: “Stop! Stop!” This is the only situation with two words.  I always receive gentle reminders from Chiling, never harsh criticisms. Chiling is undoubtedly my best partner. Continue reading Perfect Autism